WHY I DON’T FORCE NATURE
When things are natural, they often come with ease. You don’t have to struggle, you don’t have to fight, just relax. In some cases forcing things for them to work out is needed, but not most of the case. My question for you is this: “why suffer?” I always tell myself that I will enjoy life and not suffer in life. One of the secrets to living a happy fulfilled life is to not force nature. What do I mean by this? If you’re not a bookworm who enjoys reading, don’t force yourself to read. If you are naturally not interested in sport, don’t force yourself to love sport just because it’s popular. Do what you love to do and enjoy doing. Sleep, relax and choose the simple stuff. If you force yourself to do stuff that you don’t like just because it’s beneficial, you will suffer. And why suffer? Can suffering be success? I think suffering is failure. If something is beneficial but you don’t like to do it, approach it with strategy. That’s why I prefer smart work over hard work. Be strategic, be organized and crafty. Effort is needed to become successful, but don’t put too much of it. I say again strategy, not too much effort but planned and organized effort with ease and relaxation. What I’m trying to say is that life is short and we will all die at the end of the day. Don’t wear yourself out trying to acquire things that will slip through your hands, be wise. Remember that we will leave all behind, so focus on being happy. Without happiness, money, fame, luxury and so on is not success. Some things are natural and are a gift from God, you cannot control it. Some are born readers and enjoy reading, others don’t. That’s reality for you. I love writing and I enjoy doing so, but for example my mother told me that she doesn’t like to write a lot, that’s her. Don’t force yourself or you’ll suffer. I leave you with a verse: Ecclesiastes 4:6 “Better one handful with tranquillity than two handfuls with toil and chasing after the wind.”
All my love, Christelle Jesus Love.